Friday Night Dinner

When I was growing up my house was always full of people. My Mom was everyone's Mom and as much as she complained about all the continued ruckus, she really loved it. My Mom, sister and I would share our traditional morning coffee together on our back porch in our P.J's (friends would spend the night just so they could share our morning coffee with us). This was our time. To share, to laugh, to cry. A lot can come out over a cup of coffee.
 A couple years ago, all grown up, going through a divorce and trying to find myself - I made a decision. I needed to make my own morning coffee tradition but I wanted something different. My own. So instead, I decided (with the help of my dear friend Deb) to host Friday night dinner at my house. Every Friday. Anyone welcome. To create an atmosphere where all of us can be us. Share our wins, ours losses, soul search and share. I really didn't realize how important it is to share. Not only a meal but what we are going through. Sometimes we feel so alone in our struggles but through sharing you realize we all suffer and go through similar things. Such a great lesson - share your truth, there is nothing more freeing for you and the people around you. Secrets and isolation only cause separation.
These Friday dinners reignited my love for cooking, sharing, laughing, and just being open. If you can't do one every week do a monthly gathering. I've learned after the first few dinners that it can get very expensive. So below I've included little tips to help you throw a great dinner while also staying within a reasonable budget. I hope this inspires you to open your home and your heart. Enjoy!

Dinner Budget Tips

COSTCO: I love Costco! But only if you're having more then 10 people! They have amazing salmon with herb butter. One package can easily serve 8 or more depending on what else you serve. It's so easy! You just throw it in the oven and people will think you're a gourmet chef!

POTLUCK: Don't be afraid to ask for help! This was a big lesson I had to learn! The truth is people love to bring stuff! So you can prepare the main dish and everyone else can bring the sides and dessert!

CANDLES: Always set the mood!!! You can go to Michael's Crafts and get T-Light candles for a very good price!

WINE: The truth is unless you're having a wine connoisseur over nobody knows the difference between cheep wine and expensive. There are great wines out there that are not too expensive! If you want to be slick about it get some wine carafes (that you often see at Italian restaurants) and pour the wine in there and place them on the table as part of the ambiance! You can buy carafes at Pier 1 or Smart & Final for cheep! Also look out for when BevMo is having there 5 Cent wine sale! You can stock up and get wine two for one!

FLOWERS: I love making flower arrangements! If you are in a rush and on a budget Ralph's Super Market has a dozen roses for $9.99. Put in a vase and its simply a perfect centerpiece!

MUSIC: Who doesn't love music and with Pandora anyone can be an amazing DJ! Just put in any artist you enjoy and Pandora does the rest!

CONVERSATION: Don't be shy about going around the table and sharing. Maybe by asking simple questions like, "What was your favorite moment you had this week?" or "What was something you discovered about yourself this week?". Be creative, be you! That always provokes the best conversations!

BAREFOOT CONTESSA: My savior! Her books have taught me so much about cooking! Easy and delicious food! Great for any party!!!

Thank you for allowing me to share with you!
XO
Heather